I remember the first time a psychic talked to me about detaching and releasing. I just knew she was about to take over my soul! I thought if I detached from everything and everyone I would no longer be. I didn’t want to no longer be in my husbands life or my cats lives or lose my wonderful friends. However, thoughtforms, curses, contracts and agreements from previous and current lifetimes have a huge role in how we life our lives.

Once I understood the benefit of detaching and releasing, I began the process on a regular basis. It is freeing, liberating yet creates a more wonderful bond with those I want in my life than I ever imagined. And it clears ones vision as to the direction of their Soul in this lifetime. So today I want to talk about the energies and why detaching and releasing are healthy and helpful in living responsible lives. And I will give you steps to take to begin the process yourself.

When we are restricted it can be difficult to be responsive. When someone or thing is sharing our energy it depletes us and distorts our truth.

As we discuss this topic, keep in mind that on some level at some time we have either agreed to these energy restrictions or have weakened our energy fields in such a way as to allow these invasions to take place. Our All Knowing Self is aware of everything and as humans our job is to take responsibility for them by responding to them and staying in the practice of watching out for them in the future.

As I have talked before, to be healthy energetically, our energies remain separate within the whole. We have our own energy signature that moves about other signatures but it is not healthy to invade each other. We can interact without interfering in the boundries established by each energy signature. Over existence, however, we have invaded each others signatures for a number of reasons. This invasion has a number of labels, cording, attaching, energy sucking, hooking in, just to name a few. The reasons are endless but include possessiveness, jealousy, sex, distorted ideas of love, love lost, curses, anger, or a need to get from one place to another. I could go on and on but you get the point.

Some examples. Two people are in love. One dies. Instead of releasing each other to continue their journeys, they remain attached energetically to the detriment of each other. Sometimes the person that dies doesn’t want to leave the other behind so they hook into their energies. This can create all types of illness both physical and mental and can keep the earth bound person from finding happiness with another human. The reverse can happen where the earth bound person doesn’t want to let the deceased go and thus keeps the deceased in limbo. They don’t get on with their next energy adventure because of this distorted idea of love.

Another example is a human who wants to be a victim. For their own set of reasons they have chosen to use other humans in various ways so as not to have to do for themselves. This is a springboard for co-dependency and those we call con artist are in this category as well.

We cord into our loved ones and friends because we are afraid or we need their help in some way. So we unconsciously hook in and use their energy or knowledge and such to assist in our goals. This is another spot for co-dependency.

One of my many lifetimes as a healer, I was working for a powerful ruler. I was very good at what I did but his son became ill and I couldn’t heal him. He died. I was cursed, thrown in prison and left to starve to death, which I did. I have carried the numerous cords from that time plus the curse of the ruler. Most of those energies have been dismantled but no doubt from time to time events will remind me perhaps some strands remain!

I have experienced all types but I will tell you one that comes to mind that I found very endearing. Some years ago I was visiting my parents in Warrenton, Virginia and Mother and I went to the town museum which was housed in a pre revoluntionary war prison. She did volunteer work there and told me of a ghost they had in the museum. He showed himself to the locals in a number of ways including tracking paint by creating footprints during a spring cleaning spree. In any event, those that knew of him had become fond of him.

Days later I flew back to Atlanta and noticed when I got off the plane I was having much difficulty carrying my luggage. I even stopped and bought an additional pulley for one piece because I couldn’t make it down the concourse. Shortly after that I called a friend, Sis, who has incredible vision and asked her to scan me just to see if I was OK. She asked if I had been in prison in this lifetime. I said why of course not and then remembered the museum.

Then she asked if my kidneys were bothering me and again I said no. At that point a male energy made himself known. He gave his name and his story. He had died in the prison in the 1700s from a kidney disease. His spirit had been trapped their all this time and when I came in he decided to attach himself to me because he was told I would be able to help him over to the other side. ( I learned from that experience that one of my jobs here is to help trapped spirits go to the light) He felt really bad that he had hindered my ability to travel through the airport but didn’t want to lose me so was walking by my side, holding onto my arm! His kidney disease was manifesting in my energy field and had Sis not seen this I could have carried him around and the disease would have worked its way into my physical form.

The ending was happy for both of us. He happily went over and my energy returned to normal. The folks in Warrenton, however, miss their ghost. Yes, all the little things he used to do suddenly stopped.

So, as you can see, bad intent does not have to be involved in these attachments but it is not healthy for either party bad intent or not.

When we are attempting to accomplish something and feel blocked we need to check our energy fields for these intruders. We call in our support team of healers and guides. We surround ourselves in light and harmlessness and create a vortex where these energies will go in love.

This is very very important. We never want to send these energies flying off into space or into Mother Earth. When you let these energies fly they will often times attach themselves to the first being that comes along. And please, never send negative energies into Mother Earth as a way of clearing yourself or something. That is one of her problems. The metaphysical community has been dumping their energetic rubbish into her for eons and that is as bad for her as dumping toxic waste from a chemical plant.

So, the vortex of light is established. Your guides will see that the energies you cast off go in an orderly fashion into the vortex for transmutation into harmless energy. Visualize the interference in any manor comfortable. Some see a cord, some a plug, while others see a stream of light.

While it is not always necessary that we see someone or something at the other end we typically sense something because at this point you have probably become aware of what it is that has created this invasion.

Once you have that vision, state your purpose to release all connections, detach completely and thoroughly from the energy, by breaking all contracts, curses and agreements. Visualize the connection being cut, burned, broken or unplugged. Again, choose an action comfortable for you and see it happen, feel it happen. Once the connection is severed, another visualization needs to take place.

See a filter being placed in front of the spot where the connection once was. Then call back your power that was given to that energy when the invasion first took place. Run your power through that filter before allowing it back into your energy field. You are bringing your power back as undistorted, harmless energy. Along with your power you can add unconditional love and grace in the space or anything else that feels good to you. What is important is you seal this space completely so other unwanted energies can not sneak in!

Then to top it off, see yourself surrounded by your light body. Notice there are no seams, a complete encasing of your energy signature. Reward yourself with a nap or a stroll with Mother Nature as your long missed power becomes part of you once again.

If you have any resistance to the dismantling of the invasive energy, continue to practice this procedure or call someone you can trust to help you work through the exercise.

This is an on going process. I don’t know that our physical form ever gets rid of the numerous energy invaders as our DNA carries every experience. It is part of the ascension process. We are until we are no longer. But I do know that as you live in harmlessness and unconditional love more and more, these invasions become less and less and very insignificant.

Thank you for sharing in my thoughts and experiences.

Much Love,

Debbie